Non-Custodial Mom’s First Visitation

This post will have to be one that is continued after the visitation has ended. But here is the first post.

So, this week has been utter chaos for the new-found Non-custodial Mother. She has called about 20 times on varying phones (there are three in our house) and has text the same three phones about 62 times. She has also insisted she speak to SD at 830 at night, WHILE SHE WAS IN THE SHOWER, because “it could NOT wait until morning.” Only to find out it was to ask what SS wanted to do over the weekend for his birthday. (This was Wednesday night BTW and it couldn’t wait until the next day or even til last minute. But whatever)

SS had a seizure like tantrum that was over the top crazy! Kicking and screaming and turning all red faced. WOW! I have never seen anything like it from any kid of any age before. Seriously, it was NUTS and I was scared.

So, we told the kids they needed to bring their backpacks to me after school. And then go to their Mom, she won’t bring their homework back to us and then it will look bad on us if she doesn’t. No thanks.

Did I mention that she sent locked boxes for the kids last week? As IF! We told them they did not get to keep the locks and since SS has a habit of taking weapons to school he was not entitled to privacy (in the bathroom to use it, change or shower YES, otherwise no way.) And that no one needed locked boxes in our house. And she also sent child locks, yep child locks. When asked what they were for the kids told us that “Mom bought these for our dressers, so A does not get into them!” ‘A’ is OUR son whom is almost 4. He cannot open their closets where their dressers are let alone open the drawers to them! I find it funny that she is trying to lock us and our kids out of everything when it is her children with my Husband that steal things and then lie about it. I find it also funny because she is locking us out as well and this is OUR HOME. If we did that at her house she would have a royal fit. I did not even mention it to her, of coarse. I am better than that and I have no intention of saying anything to her about it. I did mention it to the kids and said that they are not allowed to alter anything in our home and that child locks will be installed to things WE see fit not others. We do however… have a use for those nice child locks since our baby girl is now almost a year old and likes to open cupboard doors. So, we will be protecting our child from underneath the sicks with the locks that BM so “generously” purchased.

On another note about the kids….  we think the child support my Husband pays (almost $700 worth) should stay with the kids, which is right here with us. We do not want her money, she can keep it. we do want the money that Husband pays for THEM to be returned. she isnot going to like it and has already refused to do it willingly. So……. off to the attorney we go.

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